My wife has encouraged me to blog for a while now so; I thought I would give it a try. I am pushing 30 years old and have decided that I am a full fledged geek. But, I have realized that I am ok with that. In my teen years through my twenties I tried to push away the feelings. I loved video games. I loved comic books. I loved sci-fi movies. I was told that these are the feelings of the less popular or otherwise called geeks, nerds, dorks etc, etc. My future coming out would be foreshadowed by my chosen college major, computer science. At the time I made fun of some of my classmates as they played games in the computer lab on Friday nights. Little did I know that I would be doing the same thing ten years later….and enjoying it (See Gears of War). Luckily, I did grow up in a generation where playing video games was socially acceptable so I was able to pursue this passion. The exception was playing them on Friday or Saturday night. Then you were just seen as someone that can’t get a date. I stopped reading comic books at the age of 13 or 14. This alone would stigmatize you as a geek would be hard to come back from. A year ago I walked into a comic book store and picked up an issue of superman. I was instantly hooked again. No longer having the fear of what people think has freed me. I think the clincher to all this was when Amy said that I am just like my father. I thought about it and said yeah, I guess I am. I love my father. I want to be like my father. He is strong, sensitive, spiritual and brave in the face of adversity. If you know what has been going on with my family then you know how brave he has to be. Is being spiritual also geeky? I think some people would say so. Again, luckily I grew up in a church that had a great youth group. It was acceptable to be spiritual. This is not always the case however. Matthew 5:5 states “Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth.” Now I would not be so bold to change the word of God. However, under the meaning of meek would be a note stating “otherwise known as a geek”. So, being called a geek doesn’t bother me anymore and shouldn’t as long as I am a geek for Christ. I know that I’m in good company with people like my father in this world. So, expect more blogs from my inner Geekdom and some that are of a spiritual nature.
Youth Group
6 years ago

10 comments:
I love you and your geekiness with all of my heart! -A
I think it's quite a compliment to be compared to your dad. I personally like your geekiness! You are a great son-in-law (except when you give me nightmares about the attic)! Ha Ha.
Connie
Geeks rule!
I'm right there with you. My family went to Lego Land and I was upset because my wife wanted a picture of our son lightsaber fighting the life size Darth Vadar. Dude, forget him, get a pic of me. I just drooled over the Star Destroyer model they have. $300...but I can dream.
Btw, none of us ever had any doubt you were a geek.
Mike, welcome to the blogosphere! I remember when I realized that a lot of my Dad had rubbed off on me. I had broken every vow I made to never be like him. Now I wish I had never made those vows and had spent more time with him. Enjoy your life as a father. I know your Dad did (and still is). I'm sure his strength and spirituality have made deep impressions in your life.
You're my favorite geek. From 1025 miles away you managed to help me download everything from my old computer to my jump drive so I could move it to my new computer. You're a great son-in-law, love you.
I have always told you that you are a geek Mike. Now your embracing it. Believe it or not my husband is right in there with you. Maybe not to your comic book extent but he falls close to the category. Dad is great to take after. I tell Cale I've married my father. Especially when I find him eatting nilla waffers and watching future rama. It was scary. Mean while Dads in the other room playing Cale's XBox 360 Oblivian. So taking after our father is great. I do think daughters look for a husband like their dad and sons take after them.
HEY! I thought I had left a comment when you first posted this, but I must have messed it up. It's great to hear from you -- I hope you do keep up the occasional posting. Give your girls a hug for me. Love you guys!
I was told I wouldn't be disappointed...and yet...
The frenetic pace of your blogging is equal to that of the speed of service of a Wienerschnitzel that has had 3 employees call out with the flu.
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